Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Australian Media

Overview:
The Australian media industry enjoys a history which is second to none. Whether you take TV, radio or print, Australia has produced some of the best media, and on the rare occasion, the most controversial, media coverage on the globe.
Television:
Television has traditionally been the most “entertaining” of the three main mediums, or should that now be four, given the advent of the Internet, which originated in the United States. Some may well argue that the Internet should not even be classified as a form of media, given its problems.
Australia’s first media broadcast was by way of a news broadcast presented by Bruce Gyngell on the 16th September 1956, when Bruce said “Hello everyone, and welcome to television”.
Interestingly, only 1% of Sydneysiders owned a TV set, while 5% of the Melbournites owned a “box”.Colour television was introduced in 1975.
The first commercial television licences were issued to the Herald and Weekly Times (Melbourne), General Television Corporation (Melbourne), Amalgamated Television Services (Sydney), and Television Corporation (Sydney).
November 1956 saw TCN9 launch “Bandstand”, hosted by Brian Henderson, who went on to become a living legend in Australian television.
In the same year, the Australian Government invites applications for new commercial TV licences in Sydney, Melbourne, Adelaide, Brisbane and Perth.
In 1968 the Government elected that Australia would adopt the European standard, PAL, rather than the United States, NTSC system.1971 proves to be a huge year, with the launch of Sesame Street, Young Talent Time,  Hey Hey It’s Saturday and A Current Affair, hosted by Mike Willesee, on Nine.
The 19th of October 1975 saw test color transmissions by all networks, and November saw Countdown, with music legend, Molly Meldrum, begin its amazing 12 year run on the ABC.
1979 sees SBS screen a series of multi-lingual programs on the ABC, and 60 Minutes commences, and goes on to become the most successful current affairs program in Australian history.
The 1980s were huge, with many new hit shows, and live television was elevated with telecasted of the 1984 Los Angeles Olympics and 1986 Commonwealth Games from England.
1991 sees massive coverage of the Gulf War, Glenn Ridge replace Tony Barber on Sale of the Century, and The Simpson’s premier on Channel 10.
Pay TV commences in 1995 with Galaxy, Foxtel and Optus Vision. The 2000s sees Reality TV and games shows become all the rage with hits like Big Brother, Temptation Island, The Osborne’s and Who Wants to be a Millionaire break record numbers.
In addition to the public broadcasters which are available to almost all of Australia's population, there are three major commercial television networks: the Nine Network, the Seven Network and Network Ten. Most of Australia's heavily populated cities are serviced by all three networks. Some rural or regional areas may receive a more limited selection, often with some of the channels available showing programming from more than one of the major networks. An example of such a "shared" regional network is Imparja.
Digital free-to-air broadcasts commenced on 1 January 2001. Analogue broadcasts were originally intended to be phased out by 2008, however the target has been moved to 2013
After heated debate in the early 2000s over a Bill that would have removed the foreign ownership restrictions of broadcasting TV licenses, the Australian government chose to retain the foreign-ownership restrictions in its 1992 Broadcasting Act. As such, Australia continues to disallow foreign control of a broadcasting license and limit foreign ownership of broadcasting firms to 20%. The Howard Government were set to remove this law sometime in 2007, having gained parliamentary approval to change the legislation in 2006, however the Howard Government was removed from power in 2007.
Pay TV
Approximately 25% of Australian households had access to pay television services by the end of 2005. The main operators are Foxtel and Optus in metropolitan areas, and Austar in regional and rural areas. Smaller operators include Selectv and UBI World TV.
Radio:
Radio broadcasting in Australia officially commenced on evening of 13 November 1923, with a concert.
For many years, the wireless was the most important and used form of broadcasting for news and entertainment, and a weekend sitting around the wireless was all the rage.
Australia's first regular radio broadcasts began on November 13, 1923 with station 2SB (later to become 2BL) in Sydney. The ABC began broadcasting in 1932. Talkback radio was first broadcast with 3AW in Melbourne, 1967. ABC began experimenting with FM stations in the 1960s, but it wasn't until July 1980 did the first FM station commence full operations. Melbourne-based 3EON (now known as 3MMM) was the first to air.
Currently there are 264 operational commercial stations (funded by advertising) and more than 300 community (publicly funded) radio stations.
Newspapers:
The Sydney Gazette the first newspaper printed in Australia, one of the earliest pieces of printing in the colony.
The key players in Australia’s newspaper publishing industry were, and in many cases still are, Fairfax, Murdoch and Packer.
Today, Australia’s most popular newspapers include the Sydney Morning Herald, The Daily Telegraph, and The Herald Sun is the biggest selling daily, whilst the Sunday Telegraph is the biggest selling newspaper.
Independent newspapers are making a small dint in the market; however the big three will continue to dominate for decades to come.
There are 2 national and 10 state/territory daily newspapers, 37 regional dailies and 470 other regional and suburban newspapers. All major newspapers are owned either by News Limited, a subsidiary of News Corporation, or Fairfax Media. The only national daily newspaper is The Australian, other notable newspapers are The Sydney Morning Herald, The Daily Telegraph, The Age, The Herald Sun (Melbourne) and the most prominent financial newspaper, The Australian Financial Review. There are a few popular independent news sources, including online news source Crikey.
Of 1600 magazines published in Australia, 30 have circulations of more than 80 000, including women's interest, general interest, television, home and garden, leisure and current affairs titles.
Regulation of the media in Australia is limited to a narrow range of specific areas. The Australian Communications and Media Authority (ACMA) is the broadcasting regulator for radio and television in Australia, and also the co-regulatory Online Content Scheme. Consumers who have complaints about programs on television and radio or certain types of content on the Internet can apply to the ACMA. The Commercial Television Code of Practice is a set of regulatory guidelines, registered with the ACMA, of which commercial television broadcasters should comply.
The Australian Press Council is the self regulatory body of the print media. The Council deals with complaints from the public about editorial material in newspapers and magazines published in Australia, and aims to maintain the freedom of the press.
Media ownership
Controls over media ownership in Australia are laid down in the Broadcasting Services Act 1992, administered by the ACMA. Even with laws in place Australia has a high concentration of media ownership compared to other western countries. Ownership of national and the newspapers of each capital city are dominated by two corporations, Rupert Murdoch's News Corporation, (which was founded in Adelaide but is now based from the United States) and John Fairfax Holdings — Murdoch-owned titles account for nearly two-thirds (64.2 per cent) of metropolitan circulation and Fairfax-owned papers account for a further quarter (26.4 per cent).
News Corporation (News Corp) and Fairfax along with West Australian Newspapers and the Harris Group work together to create Australian Associated Press (AAP) which distributes the news and then sells it on to other outlets such as the Australian Broadcasting Corporation. Although much of the everyday main stream news is drawn from the AAP, all the privately owned media outlets still compete with each other for exclusive pop culture news.
Rural and regional media is dominated by Rural Press Limited, with significant holdings in all states and territories. Rural Press received a takeover offer from John Fairfax Holdings in late 2006, and completed the merger on 8 May 2007.
There are rules governing foreign ownership of Australian media and these rules were being considered for loosening by the Howard Government.
According to Reporters Without Borders in 2006, Australia is in 35th position on a list of countries ranked by Press Freedom; well behind New Zealand (19th) and United Kingdom (27th) (but well ahead of the USA, ranked 53rd). This ranking is primarily due to the restrictions imposed by the recent anti-terrorism laws. The problem, and the concentration of media ownership, is one of many that is mentioned on the television show Media Watch, broadcast on the government funded ABC.
The Australian Press Council
The Australian Press Council, a voluntary body established in 1976 by the Australian Journalists' Association (AJA), three publishing associations (Country Press Australia, Australian Suburban Newspapers Association Ltd. and Regional Dailies of Australia Ltd.) and Australia's major publishers, is the principal body which promotes press ethics in Australia. It consists of a Chairman, ten representatives of the constituent publisher and publishers' organisations, one representative of the Media, Entertianment and Arts Alliance (MEAA, formerly the AJA), two independent journalists, one editor, and seven public members.
The objects of the Press Council include the maintenance of the character of the Australian press in accordance with the highest journalistic standards and the preservation of the press's established freedom. The Press Council has a specific mandate to consider, investigate and deal with complaints about the conduct of the press as well as the conduct of persons and organisations towards the press.
The objects of the Press Council include the maintenance of the character of the Australian press in accordance with the highest journalistic standards and the preservation of the press's established freedom. The Press Council has a specific mandate to consider, investigate and deal with complaints about the conduct of the press as well as the conduct of persons and organisations towards the press.
The Council is based on the proposition that the freedom of the press to publish is the freedom of the people to be informed, and that press freedom includes "the right of the newspaper to publish what it reasonably considers to be news, without fear or favour, and the right to comment fairly upon it". The Council believes that press freedom is necessary to the fulfilment of the press's function as "public watchdog" and to the public's right to receive information of public interest.
The Council is funded by its constituent bodies, with the associations (country, regional and suburban), magazines, MEAA and AAP paying certain percentages of the annual budget, and the balance being divided among publishers based on a proportional basis calculated on the circulation of all metropolitan dailies in Australia.
The Council provides an independent, efficient and free facility for hearing complaints against the press. In so doing, the Council gives first and dominant consideration to what it perceives to be the public's interest. The Council is guided by 9 basic principles contained in its Statement of Principles which, however, is not meant to be a precise or exhaustive formula. The 9 principles concern accuracy; provision for response to harmful inaccuracy; fairness, with respect for the privacy and sensibility of individuals; avoidance of news obtained by unfair or dishonest means; distinguishing fact from opinion and not distorting material; offensive coverage; avoiding gratuitous reference to race, nationality, religion etc; provision for response for those subject to criticism; and a guarantee to publish all adjudications relevant to a publication.
There are also some acts made for media in the press council of Australia which are also included in the country's constutions which are listed below:
1.Restrictions on advertising
The Smoking and Tobacco Products Advertisements (Prohibition) Act, 1989 (Cth) prohibits cigarette and tobacco advertising in the print media. The ban has been criticized as discriminatory in that it exempts advertising in newspapers printed or published outside of Australia which are brought into Australia for sale, free distribution or personal use.
2.Blasphemy, obscenity and protection of public morals
Australia has adopted the English test for determining whether a publication is obscene: "whether the tendency of the matter charged as obscenity is to deprave and corrupt those whose minds are open to such immoral influences, and into whose hands a publication of this sort might fall".
3.Restrictions on offensive language against identifiable groups
Australia adopted the Racial Discrimination Act in 1975 which makes discrimination on the grounds of race, color, descent and national or ethnic origin unlawful. Clause 7 of the Australian Press Council's Principles states that "a newspaper should not place gratuitous emphasis on the race, nationality or colour of individuals or groups". The various codes of ethics that apply to journalists contain similar provision.
4.Registration requirements
There is no licensing system as such or any requirement of government approval to launch a newspaper or other press enterprise. [3] All states and territories other than South Australia and Victoria (the latter repealing the relevant legislation in 1998) require newspaper printing houses to include their name and address and the name and address of the publisher in the newspaper; some states also require registration."
5.Regulation of import and export of publications
There are no restrictions on import and export of publications apart from those relating to obscenity, violence, the promotion or incitement of terrorism, and the use of certain drugs.

Thursday, September 3, 2009

Globalization


Globalization is a process of interconnecting people with different skills from all around the world. It is also a newer form of society. Globalization helps in the exercise of power at global scale. Earlier there used to be things limited being local, run by local people, but globalization has helped people to get wide, broad and international along with increasing standard. Globalization is a process, a two way process. As mass media have played significant role in bringing the society into globalization phase, the process of globalization has affected mass media in various ways. The term globalization encompasses a range of social, political and economical changes. Globalization represents a significant shift in the spatial form of social relations so that the interaction between apparently local and global process becomes increasingly important. It involves the organization and exercise of power at a global scale.
We talk about international things, or personalities, or brands, or any thing that we people recognize around the world and try to follow the on going trend is in a simple manner called globalization. ‘Loreal’ is the product used by Aishswarya Rai and is the same product used by a common Nepali, because the product is global, its circulated world wide.
This world started with a small unit; an individual from which started intra personal communication, later it grew to a group of people which gave birth to interpersonal communication, and when there came a situation to communicate from one corner of the world to other, mass communication was discovered. It was in 1920s when the concept of mass was formed. So as according to the needs of people mass communication further enhanced to being globalize. Today due to globalization we are connected reach and every happening, materials, economy, politics, cultures around the world. Globalization has helped changing the society’s form. It has made people aware. Technologies like computer, internet, cell phone, fax machine are global.
But again there are not always advantages of globalization. Internet has promoted globalization but at the same time the same process of globalization has made man confined, despair from being social and observing answers of life’s question from nature. It has made people self centered. Because of the globally improved technology every need can be fulfilled sitting inside a room. So saying globalization has always and only helped people enhance may not be correct.
Earlier people used to go the girl’s house to see the girl for marriage, have a long process and then only decide for marriage, but today sitting in Nepal’s small town people decide to get married to an Australian through computer, that in the simplest form can be defined as globalization. Being able to eat pizza with home delivery is globalization, watching movies of Angelina Jolly in our local theaters is globalization, and calling our mother “mummy” instead of “aama” is globalization.

Sunday, June 28, 2009

Fashion Industry In Nepal

Evolution of Fashion
The fashion industry worldwide is one of the most glamorous, having its reach from New York to London to Paris and Tokyo. All over the globe the latest trends travel so fast that designers are busy making forecasts for each and every season and occasion they can think of. The economic potential is so huge that designers and apparel houses worldwide are trying to streamline their operations to reach the maximum consumers with the latest products at the best possible prices. But of course, to satisfy everyone’s tastes is just not possible. In order to reach the right audience, apparel houses have created different brands for different segments. Brands like GAP, Tommy Hilfeger, DKNY, Calvin Klein and Levis have been associated with the youth and hence usually offer casualwear. Others like Chanel, Gucci, Armani are for the elite and upper classes thus positioning themselves accordingly. Apart from the international brands, there are also regional brands like Mango in Spain, Ikea in Hong Kong, Miu Miu in Japan. Even in India there are major players like Weekender, Tamarind, Peter England, Pantaloons and a host of others.
Hence the development towards a brand seems to be coming out quite strong. It’s not just related with the product but with the lifestyle of a particular group or segment of society The consumer can usually associate themselves within a certain group or identity. Take for instance; someone who wears GAP is usually a teenager and young adult who hold a very rebellious outlook to life. This particular group dress and behave in a more or less similar fashion and their tastes in clothing are met by the brand - GAP. That way, manufacturers too have their share of benefits. They can communicate their message very strongly to the target customer and they can stand by their commitment whether it is of design, quality or price. They can also develop a loyal group who usually preach the message and create more followers.
In Nepal the concept of brands is still in its infancy especially in relation to clothing. What can be said of the Nepalese youths is that they are a fashionable lot and blend into the latest trends very quickly. However, they are more conscious with the style of the product but never bother whether it is genuine or an imitation. Another factor consumers here are keener on is whether the product is imported or made locally. They are willing to pay the extra rupee as long as it is imported, without keeping in mind the quality. If it is made in Nepal then it has to be done so in a boutique where prices are exorbitant.
Keeping in view the whims of the Nepali fashion-conscious many upcoming boutiques has in store with a range of products to meet the requirements of the Nepalese market. Generally targeting the young brigade the items are produced after extensive research in terms of size, design, season and price of the local people. The prices of shirts and tops available in boutiques range between Rs 300.00 and 450.00 while pants vary from Rs 475.00 to Rs 675.00. Compared to the market, the prices are very reasonable and this is because, most of the benefits of the cost cutting are passed on to the consumers.
State of Nepal’s Fashion Industry
Nepal's fashion world witnesses quite a number of entrants every year. Enthusiastic, eager and earnest faces gracing the field with their eyes on just one thing, the ramp. But how much can the fashion and modeling industry actually offer? Fashion shows here and there, perhaps a few advertisements, maybe none? Those who have luck on their side may go on to make their mark in the fashion industry, or maybe head on to the other glamour world in Nepal - films.
The fashion and modeling scene in Nepal has a dismal snail pace growth. The chances of models sustaining themselves in this field are very slim. The most common path before a model leads to choreography, training or fashion designing. With due credit to the few who have been able to gain a firm career foothold from glamour, questions still arise: Does just a few fashion shows groom one into a choreographer, a trainer or a designer? With the reins of the Nepali glamour industry resting in the hands of semi-trained people at best, what does the future hold?


It was 1996 when Kala Subba first entered the modeling world. She remembers the doubt and confusion she felt on whether she would make it or not, how long she would be able to last and if she would be appreciated or not. In the six years that followed, Kala has come a long way. Today she is an established model, a radio presenter on Hits FM 91.2, a presenter on Channel Nepal and a choreographer as well. Besides all that, she also is a partner at the Ramp, a modeling institute in Kathmandu. She can recall when modeling as a career was very disreputable and conservative. Kala believes that today attitudes are somewhat more liberal and the public has come to appreciate it more. Being merely beautiful is not enough for her. She strongly emphasizes drive, ambition and the capability of carrying oneself well.
Can glamour be turned into a money spinner in Nepal? Kala thinks now more than before there is a distinct possibility for this. She believes you can take the glamour industry as a profession, provided you have the experience and know your work properly. Interestingly, Kala trains models at the Ramp, the same place she started out as a trainee six years ago.
"I haven't taken any formal training as such for choreography. Whatever I know about choreography is a result of my seniors, from whom I've learnt a lot. You do, however, need the experience to step into choreography. It's not an easy job. You have to see to everything, from the lights to the catwalk to the sequence of the show. It's more like directing a movie. When I started out choreographing, I was a bit apprehensive. But now, I've realized the hard work attached with it and have tried to give my best always."



Suresh Manandhar is another well-known name in the Nepali fashion industry. His career dates back to 1994, when he started out ramp modeling as a hobby. He joined the Ramp in 1998 and has been working there since as a fashion instructor. He also assists on more technical skills like posing for the camera, style and eye contact. The fashion industry here in Nepal comes to him as a rather grim picture, though he foresees some improvements in the next 10 years or so.
"It's not great but it has good prospects. We cannot compare it with international standards, but it is heading in the right direction." The benefits as he says are low and he advises models to think twice before making it a full-time profession. How does a model qualify as a choreographer, when in reality, all they have to their credit is mere ramp experience?


Nepal's first export to the Miss World pageant, Jharana Bajracharya, has stepped into movies. Monima Khadka, a very well known name in modeling, is hardly seen these days. Prashant Tamrakar, another successful model of his time, now works as a choreographer. Kala Subba is a radio presenter, a TV host and a choreographer while Suresh Manadhar has also set firm footing in choreography. They themselves say that the fashion world of Nepal is not yet advanced to make a full time career out of it. Maybe lack of full-time professionals could account for that.
The Nepali fashion industry needs more than a spark of ignition to steer it properly. The benefits are low, the resources are non-existent and there is hardly any sustainability. Though the concerned people say that the glamour world in Nepal is growing, it will take a long time before Nepal's fashion world can really achieve standards worthy of pride



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Show Organizers
This list is not in any order.
ID
Name
Contact
Location
Tel
Email
Web

1 House of Rajkarnicar - Patan 543018 Send

2 Everest Exhibition - Baluwater 423363 Send

3 Global Exposition - Thapathali 260232 Send

4 Little Media - Lalitpur 527373
5 Vogue Ad and Event - Jhamsikhel 526686 Send










Fashion Boutiques
Directory / Contact Listings
This list is not in any order.
ID
Name
Contact
Location
Tel
Email
Web

1 Rage Fashions Mona Sharma and Shrijana Yongon Durbarmarg 267645 Email
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2 Seasonal Boutique Mangal Bazar 521740
3 Dark Horse Thamel 350819
4 Meher Collection Yagendra Bajracharya Kupondole 547323 Email

5 Invogue Boutique Vandana Bharati and Prashanna Bharati Kupondole 543728
6 Shama Fashion Bag Bazar 217213
7 Swoniga Designs Lal Durbar 224951
8 Tara Boutique Thamel 418198
9 Kadambani Fashion 471591
10 Creative Fashion House Kupondole 523849
11 La Parell Kupondole 520423
12 Fashion Den Lazimpat 421826
13 Mitra Fashion Putalisadak 223031
14 Everest Centre Thamel 225388
15 Elegance Boutique Teku 223532
16 Dzambala Boutique Kupondole 528818
17 Didis Boutique Thamel 215267 Send

19 Ladies' Choice Boutique Jawalakhel 525254
20 Ves Vusa New Road 213047
21 Seasonal Boutique Mangal Bazar 521740
22 The Bluebells Fashion Wearhouse Khichapokhari 217501
23 Noor Jahan Libas Kathmandu 417352







Pashmina Industry in Nepal

Pashmina
• Pashmina: Pashmina is a fine trendiest fashion fabric of this modern era. Pashmina wool is also known for the softest, most luxurious and the best pashm wool in the world.
• Pashmina: Pashmina is considered as diamond among fibers.
• Pashmina: Pashmina is the Cashmere wool of the highest grade. Pashmina is probably made from the finest wool in the world.
• Pashmina: Pashmina is a fine trendiest fashion fabric of this modern era.
• Pashmina: Pashmina wool is also known for the softest, most luxurious and the best pashm wool in the world.
• Pashmina: Pashmina is the name given to the wool shorn from the underbelly of goats indigenous to remote and frigid Himalayan regions of Nepal, Tibet and Central Asia
• Pashmina: Pashmina is considered as the royal luxury and is being offered in wide variety of pashmina shawls, pashmina stoles, pashmina, mufflers, pashmina scarves, pashmina sweaters, pashmina blankets and other pashmina products.
About Fashion Boutiques in Nepal
• Current Situation
• Human Resource
• Stitching Methods

Current Situation
The situation is at the worst level and the excuses are (a) lack of awareness. (b) people consider `Fashion' as designing western clothes (c) lack of media exposure and marketing resources and (d) Newcomers in the field without sheer determination.
An average Nepali won't go to Fashion boutiques because he/she believes that boutiques are expensive and that it is for one with a car. Cheap tailoring centers attracting thousands of customers are happy enough. Boutiques could start by educating the general public that you can provide rates for the quality given by the tailoring centers. Boutiques are solely to be blamed for doing nothing.
All boutiques in Kathmandu and also in other regions in Nepal, need to create a program to educate the general public that fashion itself is a science and Nepalese fashion designers spending most of their time designing Nepali fashion wears should be given a priority.
Human Resource:
Most Nepalese designers have a 2 year diploma from Indian fashion institutes. The others are those from crash courses taken in fashion institutes in Kathmandu and the others participating directly in the field to acquire knowledge through experience. In the technical line, Nepalese as well as Indian nationals constitute a major portion of the labor force. Damai, a group of people falling to this cast system of Nepal, constitute a large number of labor force in the fashion field. Damai have an outstanding tailoring skills pass on from generation to generation; most run a family tailoring business at home or in rented apartments.
Human force in boutiques comprises of 1 to 2 fashion designers (immediate proprietors), 1 tailor master per boutique, 2 men for tailoring, 1 women for threading, and 1 assistant (usually women) for the boutique and workshop. Some have additional (woman or man) force for marketing as well. The owners (Fashion designers) undertakes all functions including administration, marketing, sales and fashion designing. Fashion boutique is also a family business. Father, Father-in-law, Mother, Mother-in-law, Husband, Wife all contribute their share of time and ideas in fashion design, management and marketing.
Boutique owners tend to agree that they provide more employment opportunities than the shopping centers and hence should be given higher priority by everyday people not only because of the quality and a reasonable price, but because everyone's money really goes to those who work. Boutiques embrace two clearly distinguished opportunities. (a) In technical line for tailor maters and tailor workers (b) in technical, administration and marketing for Fashion designers mainly the boutique owners (c) seemingly integrating with other associates and organizations in the fashion industry such as fashion show organizers, and accommodation and facility providers which too constitutes to employment opportunities. It also empowers women; about 90% of fashion designers in Nepal are women. The profit for every 500 rupees stitching is as low as 50 rupees and that average boutiques must earn at least Rs 1700 to Rs 2000 per month to meet the cost (a) Salary (b) Rents (c) Water/Electricity and other expenses.
Stitching Methods:
In the past, most boutiques could not afford their own workshop, many worked with others for tailoring needs. Having a workshop meant more independent and full control over the outputs. Today, all boutiques have their own tailoring workshop consisting of hand and electrical driven machineries and skilled labor force.
Nepalese customers do not really care about the number of stitches per inch method. Hand-driven and electrical machineries are used for tailoring. Buttons, Lining and Hemming are all done by women's hand.
Internet and Boutiques
Only a few have websites but others are catching up pretty fast.

State of fashion designers in Nepal
Talking about fashion designers in Nepal, the only opportunity they get to exhibit their creativity is during the annual Fashion Week, which is organized by IEC (India Education Center) Nepal, a fashion school at Bag Bazaar, Kathmandu.
Some other fashion institutes of Kathmandu, such as the Namuna College of Fashion Technology, Lakhotia Institute of Fashion Designing, and Lord Buddha Education Foundation also host annual fashion shows but on relatively smaller scales.
The IIFT Fashion Institute of Delhi was another house that hosted major fashion events in town till two years ago. It recently shut its branch office in Kathmandu. And despite these half a dozen fashion schools running various diploma courses and even Bachelor-level studies in fashion and technology, sadly, none of our own designers have been able to come up with their labels. Forget being recognized internationally, almost all designers work unheard of even in the cosmopolitan capital city of Kathmandu.
As such, the scene in the Nepali fashion industry is quite bleak; but surprisingly, the number of fashion boutiques is growing in Kathmandu and in other cities like Dharan, Pokhara, Butwal, and Biratnagar, too.
NEPALI HANDI CRAFT
Nepali handicraft goods saw an export hike of 17 percent in the first nine months of ongoing fiscal year. Weakening of Nepali currency is the reason behind this growth, noted exporters.
Nepali handicraft goods worth Rs. 2.22 billion have been exported to around 80 different countries between mid-July 2008 and mid-April 2009. These exports stood at Rs. 1.89 billion in the corresponding period last year, revealed the Federation of Handicraft Association of Nepal (FHAN).
However, in terms of US currency, the exports of handicraft products from Nepal in the nine months of this fiscal had fallen by 0.3 percent to US$29.51 million. During the first nine months of the current fiscal, dollar was valued between Rs. 68.85 and Rs. 80.15, whereas in the same period of last fiscal year it averaged between Rs. 64.45 and Rs. 65.44.
But the increase in US dollars against the Nepali currency doesn’t provide a blanket explanation for the increment recorded by certain export items. In these nine months, exports of woolen products also went up by 27 percent to Rs.336.95 million. These exports make up 15 percent of the total handicraft exports. Exports of other textile items such as felt, cotton, hemp and Dhaka products also witnessed an increase, in terms of both, Nepali as well as US currency.
While the export of non-textile items such as exports of silver jewelry, which amounted to 12 percent of total handicraft exports, also experienced a marginal growth of 8 percent and touched Rs. 265.05 million. But this figure fell down by nine percent in US dollar terms.
As summing up the document, Nepal’s fashion industry is in rise. Many of the Nepalese are indulged in fashion industry which has to some extent helped in standarzing the life style of the people who not even own the industry, but also are the consumers of the products. The earning rate of the industry is as equal as any reputed job in the society. But still few reasons are there people don’t want to adapt it as the dependable profession. Nepal lacks professionalism and enough marketing skills. Nepal’s geographical structure has also to some extent being hindering the industry. Many people don’t even know about the fashion profession and trends, and half of amongst who knows it dosen't take it as easily as the others do. There is certain group of people criticizing fashion and industry because they think women are being exposed and used as the source of entertainment in the fashion industry. As an example we can observe the protest against Miss Nepal pageant and ultimately Miss Nepal 2008 being cancelled. The feminists and human right activists are the major groups indulged in protests. But looking at the brighter side of the story, there are women and men being benefited too. Many men and women develop creativity confidence through fashion, beauty pageants and designing of clothes. So as a whole Nepal’s fashion industry despite of many hurdles is in success’s height, as we can see Nepal’s fashion being internationally recognized.

Reference
http://www.nfashion.netfrms.com
http://www.Neplaseclothing.com,
http://www.cybersansar.com
http://www.fiber2fashion.com
http://www.google.com
http://www.wikipedia.com

Women sexual harassment

‘’To my beloved one”, this phrase is seen in most of the notes or greeting cards given by a guy to a girl. ‘Beloved’, the one who receives love, and not the one who gives love shows the passiveness of girls. From the very beginning of the history of mankind, women are always put behind, under the shadow of a man; sometimes in the name of biology and sometimes sociology. Women are from many ways being used and abused, one of whose best and frequently occurring example is women sexual harassment. Unwelcome sexual advantages, requests for sexual favors, and other verbal or physical conduct of sexual nature constitute sexual harassment. When this conduct explicitly or implicitly affects an individual, unreasonably interferers with an individual’s work performance, mental peace or creates an intimidating hostile or offensive work environment. Sexual harassment can also be any unwanted comment, gesture, unwanted attention, demands or a pattern of joke or insults that affects your job, work or school environment.

As 48.4% of the women face various degrees of sexual harassment it is one of the major problems of today’s time, the solutions must be discussed and implemented. There are few laws in Nepal against women sexual harassment, but none of those are working out seriously or we can say practically. The laws and rules against women sexual violence should be made strict and should be implemented rather than just making a law book. The issue is one of the major problems of our society which has feared women even to trust their own father. The laws made on the issue are not practically used that is why we can observe day by day an incident of women sexual harassment and the guilty not being punished according the crime. Due to the lack of a stringent law to penalise the guilty, cases of violence are increasing and impunity is on the rise. Patriarchal social system, lack of awareness, men’s control over financial matters, lack of employment and training and absence of women at the policy level are some of the factors that have caused a spurt in cases of domestic violence against women. Efforts were made in the past to introduce law on domestic, to no avail. Following pressure from NGOs and civil society, the then government registered Bill on Domestic Violence (Crime and Punishment) in the Parliament on February 22, 2002. However, with the Upper House dissolved on May 22, 2002, the effort got a blow. The existing legal provisions do not recognize using any verbal or similar abuses against women as a crime. Public prosecutors register cases of harassment only when a woman is physically assaulted, from which we can see that our own law is encouraging the crime and criminals. Because of the ignorance toward the laws from the government, the crime is in rise. The absence of a specific law dealing with sexual harassment adversely affects women's physical and economic well being, thereby limiting their economic productivity and social development.

The issue of sexual harassment was a taboo until recently, but it is gaining recognition. From being limited to a social issue it is becoming a broader legal and human rights issue. Building awareness on women, their families, and communities is a way to create an environment where gender-based violence is not tolerated. The following measures can be adopted in order to curb the evil to some extent:

1. Changing people's attitude and mentality towards women will take a long time, at least a generation and perhaps longer. Raising awareness of the issue of violence against women, and educating boys and men to view women as valuable partners in life, in the development of a society and in the attainment of peace are just as important as taking legal steps to protect women's human rights. Thus there must be government policy regarding compulsory teaching in schools about the importance of women in society.

2. The Government of Nepal should draft and pass the bill on sexual violence against women with broader sense and definitions.

3. The case of sexual violence should be filed by women police only and there should not be any delay on response.

4. Appointment of female Domestic violence prevention officers in every district.

5. To curb the social evil like rape, the government of Nepal should draft a bill regarding the biggest punishment for rape.

6. Since punishment is not only the solution to control this social evil, hence public awareness is more important. It is recommended that government should organize the programs of public awareness regarding the sexual violence against women.

7. The effectiveness of NGO and INGO is well known in public sector, it is recommended that government must encourage the involvement of such organizations for effective implementation and observation of such violence in the society.

8. The only method to know the situation of sexual violence against women is through research. Once the problem is known, then only we can think of remedies. Therefore research work must be done by government through research institutes to know the exact condition of violence.

The ultimate thing to be done in order to control the crime is encouraging women to come up with the problem and not fear. Social scientists state that almost all girls as they grow into womanhood are taught fear. Fear is the form in which the female internalizes both chivalry and the double standard. Her fear results in a passive rather than active response to male aggression. She may become paralyzed with fear, restrict her behavior (i.e., not to go out alone, not to do anything without her partner’s permission), try to appease her attacker, and worry about how she can prevent a future attack. The passive women are taught to regard themselves as helpless, unable to act, unable even to perceive, in no way self –sufficient. In order to confront violence in our patriarchal society, women must use their own strength as an energy source for reform. In all societies, to a greater or lesser degree, women are subjected to physical, sexual and psychological abuse that cuts across lines of income, class and culture. Violence against women is proving to be an effective weapon in the hands of man through which they can exploit women and establish their supremacy.

In conclusion, violence eradication is not a simple and one day work. So, joint efforts are needed. A grass root effort at awareness generation is of utmost importance to nip the problem at the bud. Mass media- both audio-visual and print materials are playing very crucial role to keep the public informed about the enormity and proportion of this shameful and dehumanizing problem. Government of Nepal has identified gender equality and women’s empowerment as major policy, has also encouraged the government to get rid of all forms of bias against women and to work in close teamwork with civil societies. Abusive demands for sexual favors and targeted verbal harassment should be addressed at all levels -- legal, educational and in personnel offices. Research shows that sexual harassment is most likely where women are few in number. Where women make up a good portion of the work force (including at high-level positions), sexual harassment decreases. The most potent remedy to sexual harassment is to increase the number of women in the work-place -- a real advance for women rather than the window dressing that image-banning provides. Finally, a focus on sexual material diverts attention from the underlying causes of harassment. Gender-based harassment (whether it uses sexual or nonsexual language) is typically a power play by men who feel threatened by women's progress toward equality or even by their presence. It is the deeply-rooted social causes of such hostility that policy makers need to address.

References

Dr. Upadhaya, Nirajan. (2001, December 22). “A psychological outlook on Domestic violence on women”. The Rising Nepal, Kathmandu.

Immigration and Refugee Board of Canada, (2008, February 29)” Israel: Protection available to female victims of sexual harassment in the workplace, including legal mechanisms; whether there are any reports of police refusing to process complaints of sexual harassment from immigrant women who are from the former Soviet Union”.

www.savefamily.org

www.us.oneworld.net

www.womensweb.com

www.legalserviceindia.com

www.womensphere.wordpress.com

Chepange, bd. Bore. (2005, April 9). “Nari ko Katha”. Nari, 16-18.

Interview taken in KU Girls Hostel.







state of Radio in Nepal

In Nepal, the first Radio station Radio Nepal was established in 1950. However, it can be estimated that even before 1950, the people had been possibly experiencing the taste of listening to the radio from the stations of neighboring countries.India had already started broadcasting by 1923, and hence it is assumed that Nepalese working there certainly listened to Indian radio broadcasts. After the establishment of radio stations in India, the radio became popular in elite circles in Nepal too. However, without the ruler’s assent, nobody was allowed to have a radio set.In July 1946, the then Prime Minister Padma Shamser Rana declared that people could have personal radios. He also arranged to broadcast native radio, Nepal Broadcasting from Bijuli Adda in January 1948. But this could not last long. Padma Shamser Rana resigned from the post of the prime minister and a few months later, this transmission was also halted. This was not to last for long and in August 1948 it was revived again. Mohan Shamser, then Prime Minister, made arrangements to bring two transmitters in order to improve transmission.In 1950, the Nepali Congress Party was fighting against the Rana autocracy and freedom fighters had also begun to run radio transmissions called Prajatantra Nepal Radio from Biratnagar.On 31 March 1996, the station that would become Radio Sagarmatha aired its first test signals on FM 102.4 Mhz without a license.When NEFEJ finally received a broadcasting license on 18 May 1997, Radio Sagarmatha became the first fully independent radio station in the country.By 2005 there were some 50 FM stations on the air with more than one third of these operating on a non-profit basis (the basic criteria to be considered as a community radio).Some 150 licenses were granted between April 2006 and July 2007, including more than 65 to non-profit groups. In August 2007, ACORAB listed its membership at 90 radio stations with 33 broadcasters on air. However, according to UNESCO, 216 licenses had been issued by the Government of Nepal, as of July 2007 with 78 FM stations broadcasting. The growth of community radio has been equally large with 93 licenses issued beginning May 2007 and 35 stations on air.

As by the date 10th November, 2008, the status of FM radio is as the following:
Number of FM radio licenses issued: 299
Operational Fm radio stations : 172
Operational Fm radio transmitters: 195
Multiple channel FM broadcasters: 4
Multiple site FM broadcasters: 5
FM broadcasters with satellite uplink: 5

In Nepal, all types of radio are already in use but it hasn’t been classified in proper way. However, FM radio stations can still be divided into commercial radio, public radio, community radio and pirated radio. Pirated radio is mostly against government. Nepal Government licensed private radios are called commercial and community radio. The government owned radio is called public radio. There is still difference in classification of radios. Operational radios and televisions as permitted by National Broadcasting Act 2049 and National Broadcasting law 2052 has classified into same group.

Radio Broadcasting Associations
Association Of Community Radio Broadcasters’ (ACORAB)
Broadcasting Association of Nepal (BAN)
Far-Western FM Radio Broadcasters' Forum
Kathmandu Valley FM Radio Broadcasters' Forum
World Association of Community Radio Broadcasters (AMARC).

Sunday, May 31, 2009

Ties That bind


I ran into a stranger as he passed by,
''Oh excuse me please'' was my reply,
He said''please excuse me too;
Wasn't even watching for you."
We were very polite this stranger and I.
We went on our way and we said good-bye.
But at home a different story is told,
How we treat our loved ones, young and old.
Later that day, cooking the evening meal,
My daughter stood besides me very still.
When I turned, i nearly knocked her down.
''Move out of my way,'' I said with a frown.
She walked away her little heart was broken.
I didn't realize how harshly I'd spoken.
While I lay away awaken in my bed,
God's still small voice came to me and said,
''While dealing with a stranger, common courtesy you use,
But the children u love, you seem to abuse.
Look on the kitchen floor,
You'll find some flowers there by the door.
Those are the flowers she brought for you.
She picked them herself, pink, yellow and blue.
She stood quietly not to spoil the surprise,
And you never saw tears in her eyes''.
By this time, I felt very small,
And now my tears began to fall.
I quietly went and knelt by her bed;
''Wake up little girl, wake up'', i said
''Are these the flowers you picked for me?''
She smile''I found them out by the tree.
I picked them because they are pretty like you.
I knew you'd like them specially the blue''.
I said''daughter im sorry for the way i acted today;
I shouldn't have yelled at you that way''
She said''oh mom thats ok. i love you anyway''.
I said''daughter i love you too,
And i like the flowers especially the blue''

Are you aware that-
If we die tomorrow the company that we are working for could easily replace her in a matter of days.
But the family we leave behind will fell the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than our family-an unwise investment indeed. So what is behind the story?
You know the full word of family? FAMILY=(F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER,(I) (L)OVE (Y)OU.
It is worth while to share more time with them as they are getting older. Make balance among all the things. Fill life with love and bravery and we shall live a life uncommon.

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Feild Report


A Trip to Changunarayan.
We had a trip to changunarayan for our field visit. After a long journey in the bus we finally reached our destination. We were guided by Nirmal Mani Adhikary sir and Gonga sir nad one of the residents helped us explore about the temple and its origin. We were supposed to write a report of the visit which goes along the next para.
The Changu area seems to live the legend. It has many old outstanding stone, wood, and metal carvings dating from the Lichhavai period. On the intricately carved painted roof struts of the temple are intricate carvings of the ten incarnations of Vishnu and goddesses.
King Mana Dev added a commemorative, a huge stone pillar on the north-western corner of the Changu Narayana temple, intending to immortalize the great victories made by him during his life time, in 464 AD.
A life size 5th century statue of Garuda, the carrier of Lord Vishnu kneels with his hands folded before the temple. Besides Garuda is one of the oldest Licchavi stone inscriptions. In front of the temple here is a statue of kneeling King Bhupatindra Malla and his queen.
There is a sixth century stone statue of Vishnu Viswarup, the universal form of Lord Vishnu that Lord Krishna showed Arjuna while speaking the Bhagavad Gita.
On the Lakshmi Narayan Temple there is an 8th century statue of six-armed Trivikratha (Lord Vamana), and next to it is a statue of Lord Narasimha, the man-lion incarnation of Lord Vishnu. Behind the last two statues is a little black slab that has an image of Narayan lying on the traditional serpent Ananta and above it Lord Vishnu with 10 arms and heads. In the northwest corner of the courtyard is a sculpture of Lord Vishnu riding on Garuda, which is on the Rs 10 Nepali banknote. Above the main door is Lord Vishnu holding his four symbols.
The beautifully gilded door is guarded by stone lions of it and has intricate gilded windows on either side. On four pillars in the four corners are the symbols representing Lord Vishnu: the chakra (disc) and conch shell, the lotus (padma), and club (gada).
It is said that, During the Mila Punhi festival, held on the full moon day of the month of Magh (Jan/Feb), the silver kalash of the Deity is carried in procession. To be greeted by the Goddess Kumari at the Taleju Temple, in Kathmandu.
Our hunger was increasing seconds by seconds; we were running like insane, every peace of art was better than the next. Oh, an open museum. It was like spirit of our ancestor.
Though the place was incredible, the place need much attention, It needs to be preserved, protected, for us, for our children to tell the tales of our parents. The palace surrounding the temple seemed neglected, the Big bell calling for eternal peace has cracks on it, our ancestor praying lacks head, oh, it needs to feel safe and it’s our duty to make them feel safe.
I would like to appreciate a private museum owner who had tried to preserve our history, the way of living, our past. I was amazed to find coin collections since the very first Manaxya, a leather coin of King Mana Dev to the 5000 Rs Coin of King Birendra. The museum also had various other collections of ancient house hold equipments, generally used tools, and many more.
And after all the fun and knowledge it was now time to return home. so we were back.

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

The Teacher Who Changed My Life


While I was in school, I had a poor academic status. My teachers hated me because I was the most stubborn child of my batch. But only one thing that sounded great about me was my accent, and the way I spoke to the people would magically impressed them. But still that did not value much for my grades in exam. My friends used to tease me because I used to read aloud in an American accent in the class. I was always humiliated, but again always was fascinated by my English teachers. My English teacher in the junior classes always made me take part in school’s debate, speech or poem competitions. I always avoided them, because I never won any of those, but still she continued to do so. 

I felt irritated because of her pressurizing me. I then was in my senior years of school when we had a Male English teacher. He hated so much for I was never attentive in his class; I was mischievous, and fought with the boys. But he always wondered about how I always scored best of the marks in his subject. It was time for our pre-send-up exam when he decided to give a spoken English test. When the principal asked him about the result one sudden day, in front of the whole class humiliating me, personally stating that I obviously failed, my English teacher smiled and said that I was the one who scored the highest.

Later when I was in my high school, in grade 11, I was new in the city and the college, all so big and lots of people. I always kept quiet and only spoke when I was asked to. After one year of my silence, when I was in grade 12 my college got split and more than half of our teachers were new. And once again in my life came a new English teacher, and again who hated me because I was stubborn and mischievous. He never looked at me while he was giving lectures, because of which I vowed to myself to persuade him to appreciate me some day.

Now it was time for our juniors to join the college, and I was asked to give an introductory speech on the behalf of our college in the orientation program. I was honored as well as very happy because I got a chance to prove of my capabilities to my English teacher. I prepared a lot for my speech and personally requested him to stay in the program that day. Finally the day came and so did my turn for the speech. I went to the stage and before beginning, I searched for my English teacher, when I found him sitting at the back with no interest in my speech, I felt full confident. I never hated my teacher, nor I had an ego against him, it was just that I had to impress him because he was so good and reflected my ideology, as I always dreamt of a perfect teacher. I was going very well at the beginning and continued well but suddenly I felt nervous and concluded very badly. My that attitude to impress my teacher to show him that I was smart not ‘over’ added in front had all faded , and bowing my head I was returning back stage, where I found him waiting for me. When I saw him, I was so scared and then he smiled and said, “from today I'd like to call you 'TEJASWI’”, which in pure Nepali sense means a ray of light so powerful. I was shocked to hear that.

After that day he always encouraged me to do things under my capability and because of which I won many many debate and speech competitions and the most valuable thing in my life I won the Inter College Public Speaking Contest. And still today the juniors in my high school some of whom I don’t even recognize, remember me as Voice Of Caspian,{Caspian is the name of my High school} and my friends and teachers recall me as “TEJASWI”.

Feild Report


Madan Puraskar Library
The library consists of newspapers and books published 50 years back, which shows it has a long history of books and news papers. the purpose of the library is to collect,conservr nad preserve the older photos, handrwitten notes posters etc. Since the technology is supporting today's world information is also available online about the libraray and its contents. The total collections till the date are:
1. Nepali books-26844{old data}
2. Newspapers-5125{with different names}
3. Photos older than 100 years-7000
4. Handwritten material-700
But the library is kathmandu centric and is famous more outside the country, mainly Darjeeling. The library also consists of first book of nepal published in 1820 A.D. naming''grammar of Nepalese language''. most of the older books comes from Banaras. And the first book printed in Nepal''The Holy Bible'' in 1927 is also available in the library. The library also consists of first news paper of nepal 1995 named 'sudha Sagar' and another oldest newspaper 'Sarada' of 1991.
Therefore the main aim of the library is to protect teh valuable books, newspapers, pamplets etc and till now it is dong its best in reaching the aim.

Sunday, April 26, 2009

presentation by ashmita and ramita.


Working journalist act 2064

The fact that society is influenced by economic factors while economic processes are largely determined by the social environments clearly proves that the relation between sociology and economics is very intimate. Economics is defined as a study of ordinary business of life or to be more exact it’s the science of wealth in its three phases of production, distribution and consumption. It is thus concerned with the part of individual and social action which is most closely connected with the attainment and with use of material requisites of well being. Economics in other words is concerned with material welfare for the human beings.

The working journalist act was made by King Birendra Bir Bikram Shah Dev during his 23rd ruling period in order to provide right and facilities and to the working journalists. On august 2007 the amended bill on the working journalist act was passed by the parliament. The 1995 act has been widely criticized by the professional cricitics for being biased in favor of the owners of the media. According to the newly enacted bill media houses will not be allowed to keep more than 15% of the working journalists on contract basis that must be entitled to provident fund and other facilities being given to parliament journalists. Likewise media houses will have to cover the media treatment and provide compensation to working journalists in case of accident while on duty. A 13 member committee will be formed to determine minimum salary of working journalists. There are provisions in the bill that require media houses to spend a minimum of 1% of their annual income for capacity building activities of the journalists. It is also said that if media houses failing to follow these provisions will be deprived of government advertisement and may even face ban on imports from abroad.

Working journalists’ act 2051 was amended in 2062. According to the amendment the person like news reader, program director, translator, editor of language, presenter is also included inthi8s act as journalist. After providing job reporter should be informed in press registration. The weakness for not being able to implement this act goes to government, publication institute and working journalist themselves. Journalist used to work before getting the offer letter. In order to implement this act press council used to give pressure but it is fruitless.

Thursday, April 23, 2009

state of recording studio in nepal


State of recording studio in Nepal

The dawn of modern Nepali music came in 1952, the year after the fall of the Ranas, when Radio Nepal was established; only a year later, Dharma Raj Thapa made recording history, selling 3000 copies of a novelty song about the conquest of Everest by Hillary and Tenjing Norgay Sherpa. A home grown recording industry took root under king Mahendra(19 5-72) himself something of a patron of the arts and with it came Nepal’s first wave of recording stars.

There are 60-70 registered recording studios in Nepal but only 20 of them are running. These studios not only records songs but also compose and arrange music for the singers. The recording studios also make add jingles, dubs film dialogue etc. most of the recording studios are run by the music composers. Talking about profit in this industry the studio owner’s life can be spent normally but the living standard cannot be raised by running a recording studio.

There is only one governmental recordind studio in Nepal i.e. Radio Nepal. Because of high chances of success in this field most of the recording studio are run solely and in context of Nepal all of the recording studios are sole business. Due to the advancement in technology in the present world recording has not been a tuff stuff. For example people had to gather in a single room of studio including singers and musicians and all had to play and sing in a balance which was very difficult and time eating task, but today the recording job has become very easy and fast even.

But again when we asked the owner of one of the finest recording studios of Nepal we came to learn that Nepal does not have any instrument required of its own. All the instrument and machinery products required are being imported from abroad which comes to be very expensive and people running the recording studios buy the duplicate product because they are far cheaper which in result gives low quality output. And it’s the main reason Nepal not being able to compete with other countries. Comparatively to India, Nepal is far back in both technology and quality. Therefore the quantitatively the state of recording industry is in a rise but qualitatively Nepal is still in grass root level.

Music Nepal is pioneering Music Company of Nepal. Registered as private limited company with capital of rs.200000 under industry act of government of Nepal in 1982. Music Nepal has over last twenty five years grown to be the largest music recording and publishing company of the country equipped with state of the art and technology in recording and duplication and capable of providing a one stop solution for all audio and video needs. From which it can be learnt that Nepal’s recording industrialists too has an international platform.

Tuesday, March 31, 2009

A Day Without Destiny


A Day Without Destiny

The day was extra shiny and my heart was speculating, "Why is it such a good day?" But any way I was happy for whatever was going on. I looked outside and was in reminiscence of my home and once again remembered my mom. Secretly I was making a vow to my mom to make it the highest score this time again. 

Suddenly I was awakened up by a long "tring". Then I realized that the time was over and the teacher was collecting papers back. I submitted my papers and hurried to hostel to change because it was Friday, the day to go home from this awful jail. Suddenly someone shouted saying, “Come on do it fast your mother is waiting outside.”And outside was my mom waiting for me. I was so desperate to have the warmth of her hug and so as she hugged me I was in tears.

It was one of our longest drive where we mom and daughter could share our ups and downs. As we reached home we would both promise each other not to repeat our mistakes.

My dad would always be there when I stepped out of the car to give me a warm welcome hug. I hugged him and he smiled as always, just for formality. I don’t know why he used to do so. The only thing I knew was that he felt insecure but again I didn't have the answer of "why". We all went in and had dinner for it was too late when we arrived home. I went to my bed room and I don’t remember when I fell asleep. Next morning as a surprise my dad called me to have that day's breakfast with him. I was astonished and glad at the same time that whatever may be the reason I got a chance to have breakfast with my dad.

While for lunch I saw my dad in the dining table, I was amazed again because it was never before we had lunch together. We all had our lunch together for the first time. Dad said that it was ok if I did not return hostel that day. Now it was time to go out for the most fascinating thing in my life, yes shopping. My mom didn’t say no to anything that day.

I in the next room was busy counting and packing my bunch of chocolates and new dresses. Suddenly my dad came to me and said he had a surprise gift for me. I asked him what was it and he showed me both of his hands. In his one hand he had my dream, the thing which I always imagined to have one "a DSLR Camera"! I was dazed that it was in his hand and it was for me! I took it immediately and asked him" is it really for me?" with tears in my eyes which were just holding themselves back. But now when I looked at his other hand it was a document there. I asked him what it was but he said me to look it myself and nothing more. I took that document from his hand, opened it and read. It was their divorce document. The tears that were somehow holding themselves from falling couldn’t be controlled and it poured all out. I looked up at my dad and asked him "why?" He just answered nothing and my parents extended both of their arms towards me and said to catch ones hand that I liked to stay with.

I looked at mom with so many questions in my eyes. My mom just closed her eyes, which clearly was stating that she was regretting for whatever was happening that time. Then again I looked at my dad's face and saw that he had already formed a few lines of wrinkles, that he was getting older each day and I was the only one left in his life, the only reason to smile.

It was time for me to decide whose arms to fall in. I looked at my mom and caught her hand. We left my dad alone. I and my mom went far far away from him. I still cannot figure out whom I loved the most that time, why I caught mom's hand and not dad's. May be I loved him the most and caught her hand because I didn’t want to put him in trepidation of my normal upbringing for the rest of his and my life. Or maybe I loved her the most and caught her hand because I didn’t want her to regret about whatever had happened for the rest of her life.

Nah, just messing around with you guys, my parents are still intact with the auspicious bond of marriage and are living happily ever after. Got emotion huh! Happy April Fool.

The trend


Why is it that today I have become blind! Why don’t I see what I am actually feeling! I regret rite now but when it's actually the moment I am to do something I go blank, I don’t know what I'm supposed to do. Yes, it's too hard for us to ignore what's happening in front of us, but I usually try doing. Every day we are taught the DOs and Don'ts of our society but when it’s the time for us to apply those things in our practical life we fail doing, and that’s what makes me ashamed the most. I mean when the things our morality doesn't allow us to do why do we just put those thing in morality and not be practical.

Every day when I travel to my college through the so called local bus I have to go through so many things that my eyes do not prefer to watch rather my heart curses me for just watching those thing but again I am blank here. The bus I travel in every day makes me think," what might be my grand parents doing at home away!" The bus drivers and the conductors, they just put the people inside the bus saying there is an empty seat inside, but when they come in, it’s a lie. Most of the time the people who realize that it’s a lie when they come in I see are the old ones. And I always have a query why can't I just leave my seat and let those oldies to sit down? I know I should do that but I don't do it because I can't stand the whole journey and let those people sit.

That’s what I think and again when my heart appeals me to stand up and leave a seat my mind says it's not practical. SO what's next for now? I sitting in a comfort and watching those people stand, or me standing and letting my grand mom and grand dad sit on the seat? But again the next team comes, then what can or shall I do? Nobody takes this matter as seriously as I am taking but that doesn't mean it's not an issue to look at, right? So what's the conclusion now? Should all of us young people stand and let the old ones sit and travel a two hours distance? The choice is ours whether to make a change or struggle in the same old trend. And if u ask me I may not agree with you because I am planning for a change.